Thursday, October 11, 2007

Marathons... The Perfect Life Metaphor!

People always ask me, "Why a marathon?" My response is always that it is the perfect life metaphor. Marathon Makeover isn't about completing a marathon but about learning about yourself and life through training for and running in a marathon.

How many times in life have you or someone in your life made plans, applied every imaginable effort only to find the path hopelessly blocked. Couples rearranging their whole life for nine months only to give birth to a precious baby already at home cradled in the arms of God. Men and women who apply all their energy to getting a degree only to run into roadblock after another in getting that dream job that doesn't materialize for some years down the road. Teenagers pose pains far worse than plantar fasciitis or stress fractures and the rub of your mate on your last nerve can really blister your spirit.

What do you do? You dig deep, put one foot in front of the other and stay whatever course you must travel. You look for new opportunities and know that one run does not determine the next. The goal of Marathon Makeover is to get you to the starting line and this year proved to be a new experience for me. I never entertained that the race could or would be called off and all I could think of was the disappointment that all of you would feel. I grieved, got ticked, tried to figure a way to get around this and ultimately had to accept that life (and the marathon) is what it is - a journey that starts and is won before the country star sings and the Kenyans take off.

The success is staying with the commitment and arriving with your best and accepting the things you cannot change, having the courage to change the things you can and having the wisdom to know the difference.

I WILL find meaning and purpose in the pain, suffering and disappointment and use that energy to bless instead of curse. I resolve to grow in such a way that when the tired, weary and thirsty souls come to me I will have living water to share and a kind word for their journey and I will be prepared, to the best of my ability, to give them what they need. AND, when I do fail and do let others down by my own negligence or just failing to take into consideration the curve balls of live, I will step up to the plate and take ownership, responsibility and the heat and apologize and not blame it on the runners.

"WE men and women are all in the same boat, upon a stormy sea. We owe to each other a terrible and tragic loyalty."

G.K. Chesterton

Tuesday, October 09, 2007

This is not...

"This is not the end. This is not the beginning. This is the end of the beginning."

Winston Churchill

Now that the race is over you have to decide if you are just beginning. It's worth the life change to keep moving and that's what the Marathon Makeover is all about!